John Barrows, founder of JB Sales, spent a decade as a "weekend dad," flying the world to build his business while his wife held down the home front. John joins host Jeff Hittner to share how co-writing a children's book with his daughter, Charlotte, became his way back into her world, and why sales taught him the one thing every parent needs most: curiosity over fixing.
John also opens up about the daily ritual he built with his daughter to teach grit and self-control, the ego he'd hidden behind "I'm doing this for my family," and why so many dads feel too isolated to talk about their real struggles.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
[00:00] Co-writing a kids' book with his daughter became the bridge for finally explaining what "sales" actually means.
[08:00] Balancing guidance with independence keeps him up at night, wanting to teach without overriding his daughter's own path.
[13:00] A daily ritual built around effort, attitude, and how you treat others became the family's go-to formula for resilience.
[22:00] A blunt line from a business coach forced him to admit the real reason he traveled so much wasn't fully about family.
[24:00] COVID became an unexpected forcing function that shifted him from weekend dad to daily presence at pickup and dinner.
[31:00] Curiosity, not fixing, is the instinct he has to consciously choose every time his daughter brings him a problem.
[41:00] Most dads stay quiet about real struggles because they fear judging, or being judged for, the people they love most.
Listen to the full episode for John's take on curiosity, presence, and building a family culture where effort and empathy come first.
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